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  • Writer's pictureAmy Duffy-Barnes

Loving Kindness Meditation

The loving-kindness meditation is a type of mindfulness meditation that involves directing feelings of love and compassion towards oneself and others. It is a way to cultivate positive emotions and to develop a sense of connection and understanding with others.

Here is a general outline of the loving-kindness meditation:

  1. Find a comfortable seated position and take a few deep breaths to settle in.

  2. Bring to mind someone who is dear to you, someone for whom it is easy to feel love and compassion. As you think of this person, silently repeat the following phrases or similar ones:

  • "May you be happy"

  • "May you be healthy"

  • "May you be safe"

  • "May you live with ease"

  1. Slowly expand the circle of loving kindness to include yourself. Silently repeat the phrases above, but replace "you" with "I" or "me."

  2. Next, bring to mind a neutral person, someone you don't have strong feelings towards. Again, silently repeat the phrases above, replacing "you" with the person's name.

  3. Finally, bring to mind a difficult person, someone with whom you have conflicts or challenges. Silently repeat the phrases above, again replacing "you" with the person's name. This step can be challenging, but it is an opportunity to practice extending compassion to all beings, including those who may be difficult to love.

  4. When you are ready, slowly open your eyes and take a moment to notice any feelings or thoughts that have arisen during the meditation.

It is normal for the mind to wander during meditation, and that's okay. When you notice that your mind has wandered, gently redirect your attention back to the phrases. You can also try using a mantra or a visual image to help anchor your focus.

The loving-kindness meditation can be practiced for any length of time, from a few minutes to a longer period. It can be a powerful way to cultivate positive emotions and to connect with others in a compassionate and understanding way.

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